Almost all girls dream of one day getting married to her prince charming and raising a good family. That is why they focus a lot on their weddings and finding the right man. So once they find the right man many opt out of working and being a full-time career woman and start looking after the household ad their children. Indeed this is a noble step and a great sacrifice on your part. But once a woman chooses and decides to be a housewife there are many hurdles that she will have to face.
First of all there is this whole problem of adjusting both to each other and to the responsibilities and obligations you must fulfill. Look at it this way, two separate individuals your husband and yourself) with different back grounds, qualities, preferences, dislikes, habits, skills etc. are now living together under one roof. Sure you guys love each other and decided to marry on your own free will but the truth is that, it is going to be hard living with each other. Earlier the maximum you get to spend with your boyfriend or fiancée is two or three hours per day. Now its 24/7 and you must adjust to the other’s routine too. For an example let’s just say you like sleeping on the right hand side of the bed. Your spouse likes that too and can’t sleep otherwise. Now what? See what I am talking about? There is this huge level of adjustment needed on both of your parts to make it work.
Another thing is that once you get settled in to the routine you will lose time to even think about yourself (this happens when the children are little). You lose yourself somewhere during the process. No more nights out, no more lunches with school friends, no more time to dress up and go out. True, these are the sacrifices a mother makes for her family but sometimes you need to take a break and have some quality ‘me time’. Otherwise you might breakdown.
So if you are stuck at home start doing something different and learn to improve your skills. It doesn’t have to be huge educational diplomas or degrees. Just something that will keep your minds stimulated.
There are many courses available from eyelash extension courses Sydney to cookery classes, bakery courses, sewing classes, painting classes etc. You can go and attend one or two of these classes and improve your skills. Even if you don’t really need it, it’s good for a change of scenery. You get to meet different people with similar tastes which is a good way of making new friends (that will provide you with excitement).
If you don’t think you have the time or energy to go for classes outside your house there are many more options available to you. Take a break in the middle of a hectic day (you must take one even if you don’t want to or don’t have time or otherwise you will break down) and do something you like. Let’s say you like makeup. There are hundreds of makeup tutorials on YouTube and makeup courses online that you can sit down in front of the computer and follow that course. Just try something new and exciting.
So housewives stay strong and enjoy!